Translate

Showing posts with label volunteer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label volunteer. Show all posts

Friday, February 18, 2011

THE POWER OF SERVICE

.

.
.
Service is fundamentally powerful.
It is true that perhaps only a few people
will receive this insight. And perhaps even
fewer will act on it. But if we
truly seek to fulfill our life mission,
then we must act on the service insight.
Service is important at every level.
A mother in South Central Los Angeles
loses a daughter to street violence.
In her grief, she asks, "What can I do?"
Her Inner Wisdom tells her,
"Start with a youth outreach."
She does. With no building,
no facilities, and no equipment, she begins
to hold meetings regularly under a tree
in her front yard. Elementary and middle school
students respond. Today, after-school programs
exist in six different churches in South
Central Los Angeles because of her efforts.
It all started with a decision to serve.

.
Fulfilling your mission through service
is the essence of leadership. It means that
you are willing to go out ahead,
to show the way, to be open to the unusual,
to follow inspiration.
Service transforms your sense of mission
and attracts followers. Other lives are touched.
Others see more clearly what is best because
of our example of service. Our task is
to put the law of service and reciprocity
into effect daily, not just to help ourselves
but to show the way for others.

.
.
.
 .
 . .
Vow to serve.
Make a decision that wherever you go and
whomever you encounter, you will bring them
a gift. Let it be a gift of encouragement
or a compliment; give a gift of your
belief in the other person.
Give the gift of prayer,
the gift of trust, the gift of
accountability, knowing that when we hold
ourselves accountable to give back can we
also hold others accountable.

.
.
.
.
.
Make service the center of your
conscious activities, rather than an
occasional or random act. Service needs
to become the very lifeblood of the process
of fulfilling one's mission.

It's not that spur-of-the-moment
 demonstrations of kindness are wrong.
 It's simply that we cannot fulfill our mission
 by waiting until it "feels right."
.


.
Edited from LIVING LIFE ON PURPOSE
 by Greg Anderson
.
.    
.

..

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

CARING FOR THE CAREGIVER

.  . ..
 .
.
When a caregiver operates on little sleep
and seldom receives backup, burnout results.
The burnout can cause a double problem
because then two people need care.
.

.
.The number of caregivers worldwide
has reached an all time high.
According to a 2008 report by the Fisher
Center Alzheimer's Research Foundation,
there were, at that time, approximately a
million caregivers just for those with
Alzheimer's disease. That doesn't include
caregivers for any other illnesses.
Baby Boomers are inching into senior
citizen territory as well as retirement
(self-imposed or otherwise). Not only
are many of them, caring for parents
buta rising number are in need
of care themselves.
*
The scenario demonstrated by flight
attendants for decades is just as true
with caregiving: The able bodied need to
first put on their oxygen masks, literally
or figuratively, then help others.
In order to give the best care, it is
optimal if the caregiver is in a good place
emotionally, physically, and mentally.
Caregiving responsibilities carry with
them built in challenges.
With help, caregivers can be
even more productive taking care
of those who depend on them.
*
Respite can be found in a number of
places such as volunteer organizations,
family, friends, churches and spiritual
groups, and senior centers.
Some groups offer weekend respite,
allowing the caregiver to take a mini
vacation away from the caregiving site.
Even just a few hours away can work
wonders to calm a caregiver's mind,
making it possible to return to the job at
hand with a fresh outlook.
*
Little things mean so much.
Caregivers are often so busy with the
people in their charge that they forget
to slow down and reward themselves
occasionally. Taking a minute to say
"Thank You" to a caregiver can light up
a day. Dropping by with coffee and
muffins is one way to start off a
caregiver's day on the right foot.
Perhaps neighbors can collaborate
and alternate making supper for the
caregiver and family once a week or
making a few days' supply to be
frozen for later use. Stopping by to
clean a bathroom or do a few loads
of laundry are some ways to help out
that don't cost any money but can be
invaluable to a person who has his
or her hands full with caring for
someone else on a full-time basis.
.
Kathleen Klein
caringfortheaged.suite101.com
.